空壳婚姻的配偶双方之间没有很强的依恋感。婚姻的维系依靠种种外界压力,包括事务原因、资产原因以及面子问题。此外,夫妻双方可能认为终止婚姻会殃及孩子,或者认为离婚就是道德败坏。
空壳婚姻有三种类型。一种是死气沉沉的婚姻:在这种婚姻关系中夫妻俩对于配偶或婚姻缺乏激情,或者缺乏真正的兴趣。厌倦冷漠是这种婚姻的特点,但很少有激烈的争吵。第二种是争吵成习的婚姻:在这种婚姻关系中夫妻之间私下里经常争吵,在公开场合也会争吵,或者也会表面上装得和睦相处。这种婚姻关系的特点是冲突不断、关系紧张、怨恨不已。第三种是消极契合的婚姻:这种婚姻关系的双方都不幸福,但生活上满足,通常感到差强人意。双方可能有一些共同兴趣,但这种兴趣一般微不足道。这种婚姻关系通常很少发生公开的冲突。
有多少婚姻是空壳婚姻不得而知,也许同美满婚姻一样多。空壳婚姻的家庭气氛没有什么欢声笑语。家庭成员之间对各自的问题或经历不闻不问,相互交流极少。在这样的家庭中孩子通常缺乏爱,也不愿意请朋友到家里来,因为让朋友看到父母抬杠是非常难堪的。这种婚姻的夫妻很少一起做事情,两人相伴并无乐趣。家庭成员对彼此的弱点和痛处非常清楚,而且还经常千方百计把这些东西挂在嘴边伤害对方。
A group of sharks were spotted off the coast earlier this month.
The famous hotel had been practically destroyed by the big fire.
The sense of inferiority that he acquired in his youth has never been totally eradicated.
Over the years 26 amendments have been added to the Constitution, but the basic document has not been changed.
While there are literally thousands of stocks, the ones bought and sold most actively are usually listed on the New York Stock Exchange.
I was feeling far from well, as a heavy cold and sore throat were reinforced by the consequences of inoculation against typhoid fever.
Spare-time learners are usually the best learners. Their rate of learning is helped by the fact that they want to learn and consequently try to learn.
Most people, when they are left free to fill their own time according to their own choice, are at a loss to think of anything sufficiently pleasant to be worth doing.
The fact that you can look up words in a dictionary can be traced to a man named Noah Webster(诺·韦伯斯特). He produced the first dictionary of American English.
Noah Webster was a person who loved words. He was born in West Hartford(西哈特福德), Connecticut, in 1758. Webster studied at Yale and later became a teacher and a writer.
In 1782 Webster was teaching at an elementary school in Goshen(戈申), New York. He saw that the school-books he was using had left out something he felt was important. The books Webster had to use in his teaching came from England. These books were just fine for teaching English children. But they paid no attention to American culture. Remember, the United States had only just won its independence from England. Americans still educated their children the same way the British did. Noah Webster wanted to give his students an education that was strongly American.
To do this, in 1783 he published a spelling book for schoolchildren. Its full title was The American Spelling Book. The spelling guide became very popular. Over the years, it sold more than a hundred million copies. Copies were still being sold during much of the 1900s.
The spelling book gave Webster the idea for a dictionary of American word usage. Webster published his first dictionary in 1806. It was called the Compendious Dictionary of the English Language. Webster wanted this book to help set rules of American spelling. It contained only about a thousand words.
In writing his first dictionary, Webster was preparing for something grander. In 1807 he began work on An American Dictionary of the English Language. Webster was seventy years old when he published the first edition of this important work in 1928. (289 words)